Beachy Keen

Monday, October 22, 2012

Annelisa is 7 months!





I shouldn't be surprised at 7 months being lived out with Annelisa...yet, I find myself marveling at how much all of us have grown and changed in these days, weeks, and months since she was born. I've mentioned this quote before, but it continues to prove itself true...long days and short years or in our case, currently, the short months. Some days feel so long, yet, the months are flying by! My current goal with Annelisa is to live in the moment, get messy with her, giggle with her, do life with her! I'm attempting to savor each month and each milestone and not focus on getting to the next too quickly! Too many women keep telling me how quickly this time will go and attempt to savor it! So for mommy...finding the balance between savoring the moment and maintaining our family is my newest challenge!

At 7 months, Annelisa is:
  • wearing size 3 disposable diapers.
  • wearing mostly 9 month size outfits and onesies, with some large 6 month items thrown in. 
  • wearing 6 month size footed pj's each night.
  • sleeping 11 to 12 hours most nights (she has had more early morning (2 or 3 AM) feedings of late...perhaps due to poor naps during the day and a growth spurt?).
  • taking three naps most days...early to mid morning, middle of the day, and late afternoon...all three total less than four hours total, with the middle of the day nap typically being the longest.
  • starting solids in the following order:
    • sweet potatoes
    • green beans
    • pears
    • peas (She only likes them when mixed with sweet potato.)
    • squash
    • mangoes (Her current favorite and she'll eat them mixed with oatmeal!!)
    • apples (Only had once...so far, and didn't really like them.)
    • carrots
  • nursing four to five times a day.
  • still working on those bottom teeth...I think they are getting closer to coming in...but I've thought that for a while now.
  • sitting up and playing independently for longer stretches.
  • checking in with mom and dad while playing and she will steal a smile when you talk to her across the room.
  • loving playing in the jumparoo and exersauser.
  • starting to inch worm...and really it's a 1/4 inch or less at a time, and she moves faster going backwards than forwards.
  • rolled over on her own in her crib for the first time (today!!).
  • still self soothing by sucking her thumb.
  • loves Farley! She smiles and babbles at him all the time! Unfortunately, Farley isn't interested unless it's on his terms.  
  • favorite toy is a little fishy rattle.
  • She has become so interactive! Babbling, smiling, reacting to all sorts of things...making life with her so much fun! :)
  • mouthing on glasses of cool water at home and at restaurants. 
  • still in her infant car seat on the largest harness setting.
  • started sitting in her high chair for meals at home. 
  • starting to sit in high chairs at restaurants while mom and dad eat. 
  • went to the park for the first time and tried the swings and the slide (with mom's help!). 
  • diagnosed with Exotropia, (more on that here!)
  • loving shopping in the baby bjorn carrier. 
  • touching our faces and discovering how they work.
  • discovering her ears.
  • enjoying putting her feet in her mouth.
  • enjoyed her weekend with 'Dada' while mommy went away to the women's retreat. 
  • Oh, and the Aggies are 5-2! Thanks and Gig'Em! 
Annelisa's 7th month in pictures: 
Shopping at Target in the Baby Bjorn

A frequent facial expression...she is studying the iphone! 

Big girl sitting up all on her own! With a smile! :) 

Playing in her exersaucer

Pear in a mesh feeder for first time

Hanging with Farley during 7 month photos



Admiring her pup! 

Gotta love baby meal times! 

More please! :) 

Playing outside

In the baby swing at the park for first time...
Laughing while she swung! 

Baby chillin' at the park

Mommy and daughter Twinkies for the Maroon Out game. 






Sunday, October 21, 2012

Watch Annelisa Grow: 6 Month Photo Shoot

We had the privilege of completing our next Watch Annelisa Grow session with Laura Stiller, from Still: Life Photography, on Annelisa's 6 month birthday, September 22. The photo shoot was gorgeous at a Towne Lake Park in McKinney, only a few blocks from home! The weather was a little warm, but you couldn't tell in the finished product!

Make sure you check out Laura's blog (linked above) and you can like her on Facebook to watch all of her sneak peeks for our future photo shoots and all the others she does!

Here are some of my favorite pictures from 6 months! 











Thursday, October 18, 2012

The Diagnosis is Exotropia!

We finally had our first appointment for Annelisa's eyes on Tuesday, October 16. Back at her four month update, I talked about our initial concerns with her vision. Shortly after that blog post, I began noticing Annelisa's eyes not working or focusing together more frequently throughout the day and decided to push ahead with the referral process. Dr. Starnes, Annelisa's pediatrician, recommended we see Dr. Stager, Jr. at Medical Center of Plano. I promptly called their office in early August, to make an appointment, and this was the first available!

We were very impressed with him and his awesome bedside manor! You can read his impressive bio here.

We had initially thought that her eyes were going cross eyed, but over the last 6 to 8 weeks we've changed our thinking, she tends to have one eye at a time drift to the outside. It is intermittent during the day, but it shows itself in almost every picture I take of her shifting between both eyes.

When Dr. Stager first walked into our exam room, he noticed one of her eyes was turned out. We went over our family history, specifically how Christopher had corrective surgery for Strabismus as a 2 1/2 year old, and how he has prisms in his glasses today to continue correction. These genetics likely have an impact on Annelisa and her eye muscle development. Dr. Stager proceeded to examine her eyes by using various toys and a series of movie clips down a narrow hallway to catch her attention. Christopher said that this part of the appointment was very reminiscent of his childhood appointments with his ophthalmologist.  At this point, her diagnosis was determined as Exotropia. (An information page can be found here.) He wanted to dilate her eyes in order to measure more specifically...so Annelisa experienced her first refraction. She didn't cry when the drops were put in, but there was a lot of eye rubbing and hiding her face while we waited the twenty minutes for the drops to work. We were taken to a different room for the conclusion of her exam. She had been a really good trooper to this point, but that changed. Dr. Stager needed for her lay down so he could hold her eyes open and get a good look at each eye. I had to hold her arms and feet. She cried, pushed, and kicked at me trying to break free....for which I don't blame her! She isn't old enough to understand what is going on, and why her eyes feel funny.

Dr. Stager, Jr. then discussed with us his approach at this point and the severity he sees. On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being most severe, he would rank Annelisa's eyes a 6...he performs surgery at 7. She will likely have surgery to correct both eyes before age one...that's less than 5 months from now. He went on to say that she has 25 to 30 degrees of refractive prism...or muscle deviation from center. The surgery will involve general anesthesia and surgically altering the muscles on each eye to cause her eyes to straighten.

It is so important for this to happen...as the information sheet he gave us explains:

The natural history is one of deterioration as evidenced by drifting occurring more frequently, to greater degrees ("further out"), and "staying out" for greater amounts of time. In the earliest stages the child may experience diplopia (double vision) but quickly the visual brain suppresses ("turns off") the image from the deviating eye resulting in the child's seeing with only one eye. ...Since precise simultaneous use of the eyes is necessary for good depth perception, there also occurs a corresponding reduction in this visual skill.  

The timing of the surgery is important. As the early years are important and critical to normal vision development. The longer a child goes with this pattern of strabismus, the more difficult it is to completely cure. The immature visual brain "adapts" to this abnormal relationship between the two eyes and restoration of good binocular (use of the eyes together) skills become harder to restore. Untreated eyes drift farther and farther apart and are never "straight". Binocular depth perception is virtually lost and the abnormal appearance of the eyes becomes an increasing cosmetic and social problem for most. 

We will have a follow-up appointment on November 15 to measure her eyes again. This may happen two more times, a month apart, before surgery is scheduled. He wants to monitor the rate at which she progresses and attempt to only have surgery once. At the same time, we have met our out of pocket maximum for the year with our insurance, so if he is comfortable doing the surgery before the end of the year, it would be helpful to us financially. 

As in all things, I am thankful for having the opportunity to see such a skilled doctor and provide what Annelisa needs. We are praying for wisdom as we navigate these waters and to the timing of her surgery. Ultimately, the financial aspects of this process are not most important! Instead helping Annelisa develop into a healthy, strong little lady is the most important part! 

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Status Update: Stay-at-home Mom

I've been encouraged by so many women who have plodded through these "long days and short years" ahead of me. Reminding me to enjoy every moment, to not worry so much about having a clean house, but instead on making memories with Annelisa....despite the voice inside my head that keeps telling me "I've done nothing today!" I've done a lot of memory making with Annelisa. And perhaps more importantly, I've grown up some (mmmm, maybe a lot!)

I dare say that I've begun to find a rhythm amid the chaos that is Annelisa's "schedule." I know what to expect of most days, and weeks, and I'm slowly learning how to make the most of nap time to do things I need to do...and even realized that some days naps won't happen (don't judge!!) so we can get out of the house to do other important things.

We now sit in the middle of the what I found to be the most emotionally challenging month of the school year...October.

October is hard on lots of levels as a teacher...mostly in you know your students, the newness has worn off, you know how much each needs to learn, you know which pet peeves are going to be irritated daily, you know how tired you already feel, and how far off Thanksgiving is...October is hard.

I'm thankful that I'm not missing all of that, as I feared I would. I've found other things to occupy my time and days. Don't get me wrong...I thoroughly enjoyed teaching, my students, and especially all of my teacher friends! I don't miss the challenge of the job daily and especially the strain it placed on my marriage and family. I am finding my way into stay-at-home mommy hood...it's a slow process for me....Annelisa is almost seven months old...

I've realized, or better yet, God has shown and taught me some of his truths again in the new light of motherhood that have helped me embrace this new position I have as mommy in the home full time. Galatians 5:22-23 was the memory verse this past week in our ladies Bible study...I memorized it long ago, yet it had a whole new meaning to me this week...

"But the fruit of the Spirit is: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control..."

As a stay-at-home mommy, I have found myself more able to tap into the life-source of these characteristics to show them in my home. To be a better helper to my husband...both I lacked in earnest as a working wife...I was too tired, or too focused on my job, to live out these things to my husband and to fulfill God's purpose for marriage.

I am thankful for these days: some hard, some joyful, some lonely, some chaotic, some simple to love my Savior through serving and loving my family. I'm thankful to be here...to show up daily for work and not know what I'm really doing, and be molded and shaped into a vessel for Him.